Safe dating rules
The two of us spent 45 minutes coaxing my surprise head case to leave, but it took a threat to call the police to finally get her out the door. If your date refuses to meet at a cafe or insists on a less public place, simply move on. When she turned her attack on me, I got up and left — and was thankful for an audience to witness my exit. Do likewise if he talks about becoming sexual after 15 minutes, or attempts to corral you into a relationship. I was enjoying a second date at a restaurant when my companion took a call during dinner. "I'm just fine," she told the caller, then stowed the phone with an apologetic smile. My current girlfriend (whom I met online, by the way) invited me into her home after only our second date.
Does it jar you to find a man writing about dating safety? As my fatal attraction to that mad mermaid proved, scary situations can pop up for anyone in the dating world — female or male, online or not. If you feel truly threatened, explain the situation to the cafe manager and ask him or her to walk you to your car. "What would your friend have done if you hadn't picked up? "She had instructions to call the police," she replied. I accepted, thanking her for her trust, but later mentioned that she could have been putting herself at risk.
And that means breaking out of your comfort zone and making yourself open and available to meet new guys and gals and have new experiences.
For instance, the next time you go out on a date, why not meet at a bar you’ve wanted to check out, a favorite coffee shop or even at an arcade or bowling alley?
Not only are you putting yourself in a better position to have a good time right off the bat, but even if you don’t hit it off with this person, you’ll still get something out of the date that you enjoyed.
However, there are exceptions, and you need to be aware of how to keep yourself - and your bank account and savings - protected while meeting people online.
The Risks Privacy Maintain privacy and avoid identity theft or fraud.